How mediation works
Two meetings, one plan.
1
We meet together
Both of you meet with Liz at the same time to talk things through: what's working, what isn't, and what each of you needs.
2
Liz meets with each of you separately
A second meeting by video, where Liz talks with each person one-on-one. It's a private space to raise concerns you may not want to say in front of the other person.
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At the end of mediation
You take home a list of your agreements.
Liz gives you a written list of everything you agreed to in mediation. You don't sign anything in mediation, so no one feels pressured to commit on the spot.
Take the list home. Review it with a lawyer or any other advisor you trust. Then decide whether to turn it into a contract.
Before your first meeting. After you book, your confirmation email includes a link to a short intake form. Each person fills it out on their own. It takes about 10 minutes, and your answers are private: the other person won't see them.
Plan for three hours for each meeting. Please set aside a full three hours for the joint meeting and three hours for the separate video meeting, so there's time to work through everything without rushing.
Safety first. If there has been violence, threats, or there's a protection order between you, please call before booking. Mediation may not be the right fit, and Liz can talk with you about other options.