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Here are some common questions to cover the Divorce Without Court experience for 2022:  Q: Most divorce lawyers charge $20,000 and up - why are you so much less expensive? A: Because we don't do litigation. Following the litigation calendar is pricey because it's so...

Most people think they know what's going to happen in a courtroom. They will have a chance to tell their story to a judge who will decide. A lawyer will fight for them. And some fair result will come from the process.  That's how criminal law generally works (or...

It's important to avoid fighting about child support as much as you can. Children who watch their parents fight about paying for children's expenses can grow up to be adults who won't voice their needs because they see those needs as a source of conflict.  This is tough when...

Everyone deserves a clear picture of the process and steps to get a divorce. The process has changed significantly in the last 10 years, to the point that even many lawyers haven't fully caught up to the changes. Here are the three...

We all know that many people with addiction challenges can be fun, and charming, and so resourceful. They struggle with a disease and they deserve compassion with that struggle.  You, as the person who's married to them, also deserve compassion. It's tricky to balance the exhaustion and extra work that addiction can...

https://youtu.be/L6OHRMM6Mrc You can use a Settlement Agreement/CR2A to give yourself more flexibility with your child support. Planning ahead, with a little bit of work, can save time and hassle later. Both parents will feel more comfortable and know what to...

Everyone is nervous when they're starting a new parenting plan during a divorce. It's totally normal to wonder if the other person will keep their word, if you can do this together, or if you're doing everything you can for your children.  If you and your ex have decided...

Divorce can be a complicated process. The rules aren't as straightforward as you'd think. For example, "custody" in Washington does not mean "the parent who has control of the child." It is a tax designation that allows one parent to file as Head of Household. Most parents alternate custody or award custody...

A lot of people worry that their ex-partner will try to hide money during a divorce. Years ago, when parties had to rely on litigation to settle their differences, this could be a huge problem. The court system still operates like the 1950s but with email. So a partner who wants to...

I have worked with families affected by domestic violence for about 20 years. Every situation is different, but generally, if your divorce is affected by domestic violence, the following things will likely apply: 1) Listen to your gut. Do not allow anyone to guilt you with something like, "If...

During your marriage, you probably bought a home, paid into retirement accounts, maybe set up some college savings for your children, and tried to pay down your student loans. Washington is a community property state. Each partner owns half of all the property gained during the marriage. Washington also allows separate property...

I've worked with domestic violence cases for 20 years. The first thing anyone who deals with these cases has to say to anyone involved is, trust your gut. If you feel unsafe, leave. There are resources. You will be okay. No one else understands your situation as well as you do. Do...